My name is Jacob, a husband to a wine-blogger wife, father to two bouncy-boy toddlers, and I'm the owner/author of My Personal Finance Journey. By day, I am a scientist working in bio-pharmaceutical development. Personal finance has been my hobby since 2007 when I started teaching myself through books (that finance B.S. degree didn't teach me much!). Learning how to save, adopt a frugal mindset, and invest my own money soundly has allowed me to have a savings rate > 50%, increase my net worth by > 20 times, grow my career, and always do what I love. Check out the About Me page to learn more!
The following post is by MPFJ staff writer Travis.ย Travis is a customer blogger forย CareOne Debt Relief Services, and also appears weekly atย Enemy of Debt.ย Travis candidly shares his personal journey to pay off $109,000 of credit card debt and the tips heโs learned along the way. As a father and husband he provides a unique perspective on balancing debt, finances, and family.
My daughter walked through the front door with a disappointed look on her face.ย
She had justย returned from a trip to a nearby Halloween costume shop with our next door neighbors and was unhappy that she had not been able to find a costume that she liked.
She didn’t let it keep her down for long, however.
She knew she wanted something that had a hood, and looked kind of like a witch. She also had an idea where to look based on where we had purchased costumes in years past.ย As I passed by her sitting at the breakfast bar with our laptop, I could see she was scouring the internet for new costumer ideas.ย Every few minutes, she would give me a progress report as to what she was up to.
Price comparing: For each costume she liked, she searched websites of all the nearby stores she could think of that may carry costumes to find where the costume was cheapest.
Reviews:ย She read reviews of each costumes to find out what other customers were saying about the product.
Extras: ย When she had settled on a specific costume, she noticed some small print next to the associated picture stating that not all the items shown were included with the costume.ย She found similar items that could be purchased and added them up so we would have an accurate grand total of the price of her desired costume.
When she had completed her research, she approached my wife and I with information regarding what costume she wanted, where we should purchase her costume, what items would need to be purchased, and a total cost of all the items.ย She also presented reasoning based upon the reviews as to why she believes she would be happy with the costume.
We didn’t ask her to do such thorough research, but were pleasantly surprised that she did.ย When I asked her why she went through such great lengths to nail down her costume specifics, she gave me the following reasons:
She wanted to make sure she got a great costume that she liked
She knows we’re very busy, and didn’t want to waste our time or hers going from store to store simply looking for a costume.
She knows we’re on a budget and wanted us to get the costume as inexpensively as possible.
As our kids grow up, we’re trying to teach them the tools to to financially savvy and responsible adults.ย One one hand, it’s surprising that an eleven year old would have the presence of mind to do all of these things.ย On the other hand, these are activities she sees her mother and I do frequently when we’re investigating making a purchase.ย Kids learn things not only by direct instruction, but also very much by watching what we say and do.
How about you all? Are you setting a good example for your child through your financial decision making? What planning steps did you take this year in figuring out/purchasing your Halloween costume?
Share your experiences by commenting below! ย
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Hi folks! My name is Jacob. I am the owner and operator of My Personal Finance Journey. I started this blog in January of 2010 and have enjoyed the journey ever since. Since finishing up graduate school in Virginia in 2014, I have been working in biopharmaceutical development in Colorado. You can read more about me and this site hereโ. Please contact me if you have any questions!
This year’s Halloween came when I had just come back from my annual leave so I didn’t spend a lot on it. However, my 11-month old daughter seems to smile at flowers all the time so I bought her the koala kid’s girls flower costume. And I was keen to buy it on offer, so I saved a lot. Musa @ My Personal Finance Journey recently posted…10 Things to Keep in Your Car During Wintertime
You must feel so satisfied, seeing your daughter take on that kind of initiative! I wonder how she would have selected her costume if you hadn’t been in debt-reduction mode.
It was a proud Daddy moment indeed, Prudence….I would hope that given the lessons that we have all learned in the last few years, that she will continue to follow this model even when we are out of our debt management program (5 months!) Thanks for reading over here at My Personal Finance Journey! Travis @debtchronicles recently posted…Emergency Fund: Time To โMan Upโ
Hi Travis- your daughter is such a diligent and wise little girl! My babe is only a year and a bit, but I hope to instill the importance of due diligence in him so that he always researches, compares and waits before making purchases.
I just realized that Halloween is fast approaching and grabbed the only boy costume left at Costco. He’s worn it out twice already (getting the most of our money!) Emily @ Urban Departures recently posted…The Weekend Edition No. 3
Thanks, Emily, I hope that this diligence stays with her in her teen years. ๐ Sounds like you’re definitely getting your use out of that costume – thanks for commenting! Travis @debtchronicles recently posted…Emergency Fund: Time To โMan Upโ
Don’t have any kids yet so nothing to share! But when I do have kids I hope they are s amazing as your daughter! Christine @ ThePursuitofGreen recently posted…Thinking Outside the Box
Thanks so much, Christine – she is amazing. She may only be eleven but she’s one of my favorite people to hang out with. We picked up her costume over the weekend, went shopping for a new winter coat (which we found 50% off), went swimming at our health club, and picked up ice cream cones from McDonalds on the way home. The next day she told me that our day together was the best day ever – I love being a dad SO MUCH! Travis @Debtchronicles recently posted…Emergency Fund: Time To โMan Upโ
I just DIY my daughter’s fairy wand, fairy crown and fairy wings and about her costume I reused her Filipino-costume from one of her school events. Last Saturday she joined her very first Halloween party and surprisingly she won the third place! ๐ Clarrise @ Make Money Your Way recently posted…European trip update, Northern Spain leg
I wish I was more DIY savvy with things like this, Clarrise, but sadly I am not. ๐ I am happy that my daughter is cost and time conscious though, as it will be a great skill she can apply as she grows into her teenage years, and then into adulthood. Thanks for your comment! Travis @Debtchronicles recently posted…Emergency Fund: Time To โMan Upโ
This year’s Halloween came when I had just come back from my annual leave so I didn’t spend a lot on it. However, my 11-month old daughter seems to smile at flowers all the time so I bought her the koala kid’s girls flower costume. And I was keen to buy it on offer, so I saved a lot.
Musa @ My Personal Finance Journey recently posted…10 Things to Keep in Your Car During Wintertime
You must feel so satisfied, seeing your daughter take on that kind of initiative! I wonder how she would have selected her costume if you hadn’t been in debt-reduction mode.
It was a proud Daddy moment indeed, Prudence….I would hope that given the lessons that we have all learned in the last few years, that she will continue to follow this model even when we are out of our debt management program (5 months!) Thanks for reading over here at My Personal Finance Journey!
Travis @debtchronicles recently posted…Emergency Fund: Time To โMan Upโ
Hi Travis- your daughter is such a diligent and wise little girl! My babe is only a year and a bit, but I hope to instill the importance of due diligence in him so that he always researches, compares and waits before making purchases.
I just realized that Halloween is fast approaching and grabbed the only boy costume left at Costco. He’s worn it out twice already (getting the most of our money!)
Emily @ Urban Departures recently posted…The Weekend Edition No. 3
Thanks, Emily, I hope that this diligence stays with her in her teen years. ๐ Sounds like you’re definitely getting your use out of that costume – thanks for commenting!
Travis @debtchronicles recently posted…Emergency Fund: Time To โMan Upโ
Don’t have any kids yet so nothing to share! But when I do have kids I hope they are s amazing as your daughter!
Christine @ ThePursuitofGreen recently posted…Thinking Outside the Box
Thanks so much, Christine – she is amazing. She may only be eleven but she’s one of my favorite people to hang out with. We picked up her costume over the weekend, went shopping for a new winter coat (which we found 50% off), went swimming at our health club, and picked up ice cream cones from McDonalds on the way home. The next day she told me that our day together was the best day ever – I love being a dad SO MUCH!
Travis @Debtchronicles recently posted…Emergency Fund: Time To โMan Upโ
I just DIY my daughter’s fairy wand, fairy crown and fairy wings and about her costume I reused her Filipino-costume from one of her school events. Last Saturday she joined her very first Halloween party and surprisingly she won the third place! ๐
Clarrise @ Make Money Your Way recently posted…European trip update, Northern Spain leg
I wish I was more DIY savvy with things like this, Clarrise, but sadly I am not. ๐ I am happy that my daughter is cost and time conscious though, as it will be a great skill she can apply as she grows into her teenage years, and then into adulthood. Thanks for your comment!
Travis @Debtchronicles recently posted…Emergency Fund: Time To โMan Upโ