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Itโs not really a secret that many people in their 20โs and 30โs struggle with debt. However, what I didnโt realize is that young people today have thousands of dollars more in debt than our parents and grandparents did at our age according to a recent article published by NBC news.
Why are we in more debt than our parents? What went wrong?
Here are some possible explanations:
The average student loan debt in our country is $25,000. Mine is currently at $36,000. My husbandโs is well into the six figures. This is due to pursuing graduate educations but also to the ever increasing tuition costs. They are going up so rapidly that I wonder how I will ever afford to send my kids to college.
The last thing I want is for my kids to be strapped with their own student loans. Weโre supposed to make things better for them, right?
Iโm not sure what can be done to combat this, since universities certainly arenโt going to lower their tuition rates. What I might do is send my kids to a community college or have them complete some online college classes while they are still in high school to hopefully shave off a year or two of their tuition costs.
There are so many more things to buy than there were when our parents and our grandparents were our age. With the dramatic rise in technology, there are an unlimited amount of expensive gadgets that everyone just has to have. Regardless of whether or not they can afford one, many people have big screen TVs, smart phones, and nice cars.
Essentially, weโve redefined what โneedsโ are. The line between needs and wants is much more muddled these days.
Our grandparents would have never even considered a nice meal out during the Depression. Why, when weโre in our own recession, do we have so much trouble living with less?
Youโve heard it said many times before: Weโre more connected than ever before. There are obvious benefits to this, such as talking to friends and family all over the world with great ease, working with businesses across continents, and staying in touch with friends from grammar school.
Yet, the connectivity has also been detrimental to our generation. Itโs allowed people to see celebrities tweeting their latest travel destination and reality TV stars buying million dollar mansions. Itโs made us feel โcloserโ to those who live extravagant lives, further perpetrating the myth that we should all live that way (or even worse, that we all deserve to live that way.)
This connectivity has also inspired a lot of comparison and competition, especially among friends. How many times have you felt down about your own marriage or your own children because of something someone else posted on Facebook? How many times have you felt jealous because someone posted about their shopping spree, showcasing their โhaulsโ on YouTube? All of these issues contribute to the rising need for our generation to buy more things to try to project a positive, โricherโ image to others.
We have to get better about this, and it starts with maintaining more of a level head when it comes to spending.
While rising tuition costs, the recession, and our connectivity all contribute to the debt issues that our generation currently faces, the real perpetrator is a lack of financial literacy. I canโt remember anyone sitting down and telling me to be careful about taking out student loans. In fact, many encouraged me to do it to make my life easier.
While I had to complete several โquizzesโ online for my college loans to go through, I didnโt really understand what I was reading. All I really gathered from it was that Iโd have to pay them back someday, something that was easy enough to understand.
I fully acknowledge that the information was out there for me to learn about myself, and I should have. I should have sat there and crunched the numbers to understand what I was really, truly doing. But, I didnโt. And neither did millions of other college students my age who took out large loans to go to school and graduated in the middle of a recession.
In my very humble opinion, financial literacy is what we need to tackle first in order to make some much needed changes around here. Essentially, if we donโt teach our kids the hard financial lessons weโve learned, this debt situation could get much, much worse when itโs their turn.
How about you all?ย Why do you think that we have more debt than our parents? Is it for the reasons listed above, a combination of them, or something else entirely?
Share your experiences by commenting below!
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Hi folks! My name is Jacob. I am the owner and operator of My Personal Finance Journey. I started this blog in January of 2010 and have enjoyed the journey ever since. Since finishing up graduate school in Virginia in 2014, I have been working in biopharmaceutical development in Colorado. You can read more about me and this site hereโ. Please contact me if you have any questions!
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Those are a lot of factors of why people are more in debt these days. I’m sure inflation has something to do with it too. Mostly though, its the lifestyle we’ve become accustomed to. I was lucky where my parents instilled a lot of sensible finance by example. They didn’t teach me about investments and retirement accounts, but they sure showed me how to save money and live being frugal.
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That’s awesome. I hope to teach my kids the same thing!
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I won’t go on a rant about the ridiculous rise in tuition of schools. What I kept thinking while reading this is my freshman year dorm room. It was built in the 1950’s and had a grand total of 2 outlets, 2 beds and 2 desks. My roommate and I were probably close to burning the place down with our extension cords and power strips to power our computers, tv’s, video game systems, stereo systems, and cell phones. We also lofted the beds so we had more room for these gadgets.
I assume the students in these rooms when they were built had books, a radio, maybe a TV, and a typewriter.
For me, I actually came out with little debt and that debt was to my parents rather than standard loans. I can’t say I was overly educated on the process just that my parents made it very clear that I would pay for half of my college and I always interpreted that to mean that I would have that money before college was over.
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I think that’s a credit to your parents. I’m not sure what we’re going to do with our kids and tuition. For one, we might not be able to afford it, but if we can I like the idea of giving them a loan for half and us paying for half.
Personally, my parents are actually in more debt than I am. In an attempt to shield my brother and I from the horrendous financial picture they were creating, they constantly complained about the lack of money while simultaneously handing us cash whenever we asked for it. We ended up receiving such a confusing perspective on our family’s money situation as well as personal finance in general.
If parents were more open with their kids about their finances, the kids will grow to be financially knowledgeable and probably less likely to jump into debt. If my parents were more open, I know I would have been more careful with my money myself.
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That’s a good point. I’m so determined to have financially literate kids. They are going to be so tired of hearing about money!
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My debt’s higher because my house is way more expensive due to where we live. Other than that, we’re the same!
That totally makes sense. I’m sure our cost of living when we move to NY next year will definitely exceed the housing prices in Louisiana where my parents live!
I think much of the problem has to do with rising income inequality. Check out this youtube video:
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Thanks for the video! I’ll go check it out.
Great post! I wonder if perhaps it is due to the fact that their parents instilled a bigger sense of savings on them from the Depression era? I just know my grandparents saved everything and spent very little money since they lived through the Great Depression, and I wonder if that mindset was burned into their children (i.e. my parents) minds? Just a thought!
Absolutely. Those who have lived through the Depression era definitely have a different experience with money. I wonder how the current recession will affect us?
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I know that I was in more debt the my parents. Just the cost of going to college and taking out student loans did that for me. My parents live a simple life and though they are not what we would call financially savvy they are looking to purchase 50k cars and hundred dollar jeans. When I compare the amount of money they earn vs debt to mine I would say it is about the same in that aspect.
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I think living the simple life is great, truly. I’m personally trying to recapture that!
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I think the tuition part is a huge aspect. If you are 100k in student loan debt, 20k on a credit card seems like nothing. The previous generation was far less likely to have such a situation.
Could inflation also be at play here?
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Yes, inflation absolutely factors into it. However, I think the scariest part is that tuition is increasing faster than inflation.