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Itโs almost the American Way, going broke to buy a house.
After all, a house is the biggest of all purchases, and it takes just about every nickel that you have in order to make it happen. However, as common a practice as it may be closing broke can be a complete disaster from a financial perspective.
Youโre better off to buy a little bit below your means, and make sure that you have some money saved up after you close on the house. Being broke is never a good state of affairs, and it can be even worse immediately after purchasing a house.
Whether the house that you buy is existing or brand-new, you can virtually predict that there will be one or more major purchases necessary after the closing. Often, it turns out to be a repair issue that did not turn up in a home inspection. It can also be a condition that wasnโt obvious at the time of purchase because the house was brand-new.
Whatever the cause, the may cost you a couple thousand dollars or more to remedy the problem. In other situations you may need to purchase a major appliance or system component. This can be anything from a new refrigerator to replacing the air-conditioning unit in the house.
You have to be prepared for this kind of outcome by having some extra money saved up after your closing.
You know how everyone one tells you that you need to have an emergency fund? If that is true when you are renting an apartment, itโs doubly true when you own a house.
Every house, no matter how old, has repair and maintenance needs. Some properties, even new ones, can turn out to be certified money pits. For example, though it may not seem obvious at the time of purchase, you can find out that a brand-new house has water drainage problems that needs to be repaired. Didnโt see that coming!
And on an older house, the number of emergencies can increase exponentially. A leaky roof, wood rot, drainage problems, or backed up pipes are hardly uncommon. Youโll need to have money at all times in order to deal with these problems as they arise. This is even more true if youโre not the type who can handle repair and maintenance issues on your own, and you need to rely and paying outside services.
A lot of people are so enchanted with the idea of finally owning a home, that they convince themselves that nothing else matters. I donโt care as long as I have my house! But that thought will do you little good if you have other expenses apart from the house itself โ and you will.
Though owning a house can make excellent sense from a financial standpoint in the long run, itโs important to understand that a house is not liquid. This is especially true when you first take ownership of the property, since there is no equity to borrow against. If money is tight for you to buy a house, it will be even tighter after the closing. Youโll need to have extra money to cover any needs that you may have โ anticipated or otherwise. If all of your money is tied up in the house, youโll have a big problem – or a series of them.
The general thinking when buying a house is that you buy on a shoestring, and your financial situation will improve as time goes on. Thatโs typically true โ your income rises and your expenses begin to settle down into a predictable pattern.
But sometimes the situation goes in a different direction. Sometimes you develop a pattern of โbuying for the houseโ, always thinking that things will get better at sometime in the future. If you start getting used to not having money and using credit lines every time you need any, you could be setting up lifelong patterns that can land you in the poorhouse sooner or later.
Ironically, too much optimism when buying a house can set you up for just such an outcome. You could develop the โbuy now, pay laterโ mindset, always thinking that the tight money situation youโre in now is only temporary, and that things will get better in the future.
They may, but itโs always best to not make assumptions.
As happy as you might be at the prospect of owning your own home, being broke has a way of throwing cold water on your celebration. Yes, you have your home, but if you donโt have money for an occasional dinner out or trip to the movies, or if you constantly find yourself borrowing from Peter to pay Paul that good feeling that comes from homeownership could start to get older in a hurry.
If you really want to enjoy your new home from the get-go, plan on having some money set aside for contingencies, emergencies, and extras after the closing. Going broke to buy a house – common that it is – is vastly overrated.
How about you all? How much of your monthly income generally goes towards paying for your house? Are you comfortable with the amount that you’re paying?
Share your experiences by commenting below!ย
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Hi folks! My name is Jacob. I am the owner and operator of My Personal Finance Journey. I started this blog in January of 2010 and have enjoyed the journey ever since. Since finishing up graduate school in Virginia in 2014, I have been working in biopharmaceutical development in Colorado. You can read more about me and this site hereโ. Please contact me if you have any questions!
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We are currently looking at owning a home. It is hard when the Realtor wants to show us houses that are out of our budget, and it is hard to say NO.
That’s to be expected Michelle. More expensive house = larger commission check for the realtor. You have to take charge and let the agent know that she’s working for you, and not the other way around. If she doesn’t get it, find another agent. She could force you into a permanent financial squeeze that you don’t need to be dealing with.
The problem is that the banks tell you how much you CAN afford, and people take that number and use that as a stake in the ground that how much they SHOULD spend. People buying a home need to do some work to figure out how much of their budget they are willing and able to dedicate to buying a home!
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Hi Travis – You’re dead right on that. The bank says I can, so I guess I can. The actual personal cash flow is rarely considered. When I was in the mortgage business, the bank number became the target 80-90% of the time. Sometimes they even pushed past it.
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This is great. A lot of people get into financial trouble because they want to have a house. We’re saving up for a house, but we are only buying enough house so we can pay it with one of our salaries. We can afford a much bigger house, but we won’t need a bigger house for the next ten years or so. When we are ready for a bigger house, then we’ll sell our little house – hopefully for a profit.
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Hi Aldo – That one salary idea is brilliant on a number of fronts. Sure, it keeps you from overbuying, and leaves you plenty of extra money for non-housing, but it’s also an excellent fail safe in the event of a job loss. If you can swing the payment on one salary, you won’t be a candidate for foreclosure if one job is lost. These days that’s really important because a lost job can last for enough months to seriously weaken your financial situation.
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That’s a smart idea. A lot of people try to buy a house they can grow into eventually (if income rise over the years) but I’d rather buy a house I can afford now.
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I’m also of the thinking that “grow into eventually” doesn’t always happen. That used to be the case back when so many careers were elevators rides up, but this is a very different world. You’re far better off buying a house you can comfortably afford now, then use any new found prosperity to build up your savings, payoff debt, and invest in the financial markets. Putting all/most of your eggs in the housing basket isn’t well advised these days.
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It’s funny because sometimes I feel like we did buy too much house, but then I look and realize that we’re actually OK. The good thing is that when we first started house shopping, my original budget was about $45k higher than what we ended up spending, mostly because the market was falling so we got the same house just for less. It’s a good thing that I didn’t ‘take advantage’ and buy a bigger house. We’d definitely be feeling an impact.
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So much of the home buying process is emotional. It was no small thing that you overrode your emotions and bought the same house for less. I suspect most people would see it as an opportunity to go for the more expensive house. Greed is an emotion that has an affect on buying a house. Ie, “more is better”.
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Definitely bought a house below what we can afford so that we can be comfortable living here and not scraping by paycheck to paycheck paying mortgage. Glad we did because there are so many unforeseen expenses that came up after we closed the house! We still save a ton each month and are able to make extra mortgage payments that go towards our principal.
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Well done Christine! Unfortunately, that’s not how everyone does it. Most do come out of the closing without as much as 30 days of living expenses sitting in the bank. And the immediate needs after the purchase usually eat that up pretty quickly.
There’d be a lot fewer people facing foreclosure if they bought the way you did, beneath your means. It needs to be the wave of the future. Now if we can only get the real estate agents on board with this…
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