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So, with all that we are using the Internet, the question of how can we be sure that our details are secure is of great importance to all of us.
How about you all? How do you protect your identity and personal information online? How cautious are you about sharing personal information? How much do you worry about it being stolen?
Share your experiences by commenting below!
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Welcome personal finance fans to the 22nd (can you believe we’re on the 22nd edition already?! I remember when Crystal started this thing!) edition of the Totally Money Blog Carnival, a weekly carnival that includes the top personal finance and money posts.
Before getting started, I wanted to congratulate FruGal and Miss Moneypenniless at TotallyMoney.com on becoming the new owners of the Carnival. It will be exciting to continue to see the Totally Money Blog Carnival grow.
In honor of June being a big wedding month (after brides and grooms graduated from college and high school in May), I figured it might be interesting to share some stats about the most wild, expensive, out-of-this-world weddings that I could find! You can read these random tidbits in red text interspersed throughout the articles.
Listed below are the top 3 articles of this week’s submissions!
Top 3 Editor’s Picks
1. Mike Piper presents It’s All One Portfolio posted at The Oblivious Investor, saying, “One of the most common investing mistakes is holding the same asset allocation in each account (IRA, 401(k), etc.), even if doing so results in higher costs, complexity, and taxes.”
These days, many of us operate our investing strategy through the use of multiple account types (401k’s, IRAs, annuities, taxable accounts, etc). This article by Mike Piper gives us a good reminder that it is most efficient and also least expensive to use the accounts to maintain one overall asset allocation. Just remember to place the different asset classes in their most tax-efficient location.
Also, an interesting side note is that Mike’s site was recently mentioned as a very high quality investing blog to read by Money Magazine. This is truly quite an honor! Congrats Mike!
2. The Saved Quarter presents Cut Your Budget: Erin posted at The Saved Quarter, saying, “See how Penny from The Saved Quarter helped Erin fit her real life into her budget, giving her ideas to be debt free and with a full emergency fund in two short years!”
Penny from The Saved Quarter has started doing a great thing by reaching out to her readers and seeing if she can help them optimize their monthly budget. In this post, one of her readers, Erin, lays out her current budget, and then Penny uses her expertise to recommend ways for Erin to cut her entertainment and food expenses so that she can pay herself first and pay off her debts quicker. Rock n’ roll Erin and Penny!
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5th Most Expensive Wedding – Chelsea Clinton and Marc Mezvinsky
This 2010 wedding cost a measly $5 million. Key spending items were $600,000 for A/C’d tents for the guests (you can’t be sweating after all!) and an $11,000 cake. What’s funny is that one of my friends from high school had a $5,000 wedding cake and wasn’t nearly this rich.
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Listed below are the best of the rest of the submissions. Enjoy!
Andrew Boyd presents 10 Best Personal Financial Planning Tools posted at The Credit Letter, saying, “With a range of financial planning tools available online, it’s now easier than ever manage your money.”
Jason Price presents How to Budget with the Envelope System posted at One Money Design, saying, “How to make the most of budgeting with the envelope system!”
Miss Moneypenniless presents Surviving Unpaid Internships posted at FruGal, saying, “New Totally Money author Alex Varley Winter imparts her secret tips on coping financially and emotionally while trying to get a foot through the door.”
Gerry Sandis presents Youth May Find It Hard To Find A Job This Summer posted at RESUMEMag, saying, “There may not be enough funding for summer-jobs programs, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t still hit the pavement looking for your own summer job. Here are some tips to help you find some gainful employment this summer”
Lahesha Williams presents Using Social Media to Market your Small Business Effectively posted at Career Help For Christians, saying, “Marketing is an essential element of every business and can be the key to the success or failure of the business.”
Bob presents The Debit Card vs. The Credit Card posted at Christian Personal Finance.
Tim Chen presents The Walmart MoneyCard: Just Another Prepaid Debit Card to Avoid posted at NerdWallet Blog – Credit Card Watch, saying, “The Walmart MoneyCard is just one aspect of the superstore’s expansion into the financial arena: it also offers check cashing, bill payments, money orders and tax prep, among others.”
Juan Haffer presents The Best Travel Credit Card posted at Blue Sauger.com, saying, “This post shows how to find a good credit card for overseas use.”
Briana Ford presents Starting a Debt Snowball posted at 20 and Engaged.
Justin presents Why You Should Stop Paying Down Your Debt posted at Money is the Root.
Maxim Kazawy presents 5 Best Dividend Paying Mutual Funds with High Income posted at Best Dividend Mutual Funds, saying, “Dividends provide an instant cash flow return on your investment and also act as a downside protector in bear markets. Also, the US stock markets have lost 2% annualized over the last 10 years. If you were invested in dividend paying mutual funds during this time, you would probably have made 5% compounded annual gains. In this article, we will go over 10 best mutual funds that pay dividends.”
Joe Morgan presents Notice of Mortgage Protection Insurance, a Scam. posted at Simple Debt-Free Finance, saying, “Is Mortgage Protection Insurance a good idea? I don’t think so, and here’s why.”
Matt Mason presents What Is The Best Investment? posted at FYMO Personal Finance Blog.
Financial Uproar presents My Updated Investment Strategy posted at Financial Uproar, saying, “My updated investment strategy, and how it combines active and passive investing.”
Alexander presents The Dividend Growth Model posted at Dividend Stocks, saying, “This stock valuation model takes a look at divided growth and uses it to help you decide whether or not the investment is a good buy.”
Sun presents What Makes A Good Checking Account posted at The Sun’s Financial Diary.
Crystal presents Craigslist – Garage Sale Leftovers posted at Budgeting In the Fun Stuff.
Philip presents Find the Cheapest Gas In Your Zip Code posted at PT Money: Personal Finance.
Glen presents Take Advantage of Free 2011 Reading Programs During the Summer posted at Parenting Family Money.
Aaron Elder presents Frugal Fail: Renting your cable modem is harmful to your wallet posted at Below Your Means: Living well by living within and growing your means.
retirebyforty presents Groupon VS Google Offers posted at retireby40.org, saying, “Groupon is about to face it’s biggest challenge yet – the 800-lb gorilla named Google Offers.”
Courtney Sperlazza presents When expensive is frugal: a stroller story posted at Well Wise Happy.
Tim Fraticelli presents Negotiating Anything posted at Faith and Finance, saying, “Negotiating doesn’t have to be scary. These tips will help you in almost any negotiation – from salary, to car purchases and garage sales. Negotiation is a skill that can be improved IF you practice.”
Anna presents What are Grocery Ecoupons? posted at Think ‘n Save, saying, “Paperless grocery coupons, or ecoupons, are becoming more common. We show you how to find and load this type of coupon.”
The Amateur Financier presents Frugal Friday – Medicine posted at The Amateur Financier, saying, “A guide to saving on medicine, something we all need (and all too many of us spend too much money on)”
Tom Drake presents Focus on the Big Things posted at Canadian Finance Blog.
Outlaw presents Online Stock Broker Comparison for Do-It-Yourself Investing posted at Outlaw Finance: Investing Blog.
Boomer presents When To Fire Your Investment Manager posted at Boomer & Echo, saying, “You should hire a manager only after careful research and thoughtful deliberation. The decision to fire a manager should be made in exactly the same way.”
My Journey presents June 2011 Net Worth Update posted at My Journey to Millions, saying, “From May 2, 2011 to June 1, 2011 my net worth has increased 8.69%. From January 18, 2011 to June 1,2011 my net worth has increased 33.36%”
FMF presents Seven Keys to Get Up, Get Speaking, and Get Paid posted at Free Money Finance.
MoneyCone presents 10 Questions To Ask Your Bank Before You Open An Account posted at Money Cone, saying, “Fine prints, who reads them right? At least until you are hit with fees for violating some rule buried in fine prints!”
Hunter presents Financial Secrets Are Cheating posted at Financially Consumed, saying, “Poor communication between couples is often cited as a leading cause of stress and break-up. Keeping financial secrets in a relationship, for any reason, is deceptive behavior and can only lead to a loss of trust.”
Dr. Dean presents A New Credit Temptation! posted at Dr. Dean’s TheMillionaireNurse.com Blog.
Andy presents Health Insurance and Health Care Costs Are Crazy posted at Tight Fisted Miser, saying, “I have written before about the crazy cost of health care but a recent experience has inspired me to write about it again.”
liverealnow presents Money Problems: Insurance posted at Live Real, Now, saying, “Do you know what kind of insurance you need and how much to get?”
Ken presents Home Business Start-Up: Obtaining Business License and Permits posted at Spruce Up Your Finances, saying, “Starting a business is not as easy as just thinking of a business concept and opening your doors to the customers immediately. Before you can start conducting your business, there are a few things that you have to do such as obtaining the required business license and permits”
Barb Friedberg presents HOW TO CAPITALIZE ON THIS ECONOMY posted at Barbara Friedberg Personal Finance, saying, “With interest rates at all time lows, maybe now is the time to take out a mortgage, or finance a rental property or business endeavor.”
Jennifer Martin presents 5 Tips to Negotiating to Buy a House posted at The Negotiation Board, saying, “Take advantage of this extreme home buyer’s market and learn how to expertly negotiate the purchase of your next home with these five strategic tips.”
Melissa Batai presents My Unusual Savings Plans – Save $5 Bills and Change posted at Mom’s Plans, saying, “Now that my husband has a full-time job and I am bringing in more money, I expect that we will be able to meet our monthly obligations, but there isn’t much room for extra savings. So, I have decided on this unusual savings plan: All change will go in a jar and be saved for a new car. All $5 bills will be saved for a down payment on a house.”
Buck Inspire presents Auto Insurance Shopping posted at Buck Inspire.
Jim Yih presents Saving for retirement is simple, not easy posted at Retire Happy Blog, saying, “Saving for retirement is simple, but not easy. Although saving rates are low, Canadians can utilize some key strategies to save for retirement.”
Control Your Cash presents Index Funds Don’t Work in Bear Markets posted at Control Your Cash: Making Money Make Sense, saying, “We tell ourselves that index funds always work even though there is a voice of common sense within each of us that tells us that it cannot possibly be so. How could there ever be an asset class that is worth buying at any price?”
Glen Craig presents Google Wallet and the New Wave of Paying for Things posted at Free From Broke.
Money Beagle presents Missed Opportunities At The Gas Pump posted at Money Beagle, saying, “What gas price situation bugs you the most?”
Kevin presents Don’t Get Fooled: High Pressure Marketing Tactics posted at Invest It Wisely, saying, “Remember to take your time and look at the fundamentals before committing to any big decisions. If the deal really is that great, then why would the salesperson have to try so hard to sell it? In the end, examine the fundamentals, look at the numbers, and, just like with women in the bedroom, make sure the salesperson understands that ‘no’ means no.”
South County Girl presents A trip to Michaels… =) posted at South County Girl, saying, “How my bridesmaid and I saved a ton of money making our own hair accessories for me and my bridal party for my wedding instead of paying $49-$100 per flower clip from David’s Bridal.”
Fred Lee presents Unique Father’s Day Gifts That Don’t Break The Bank posted at Parenting Squad, saying, “Don’t cave to simplicity. If you’re looking for unique, inexpensive, or even free ways to show dad he’s the prince of papas, consider these ideas.”
Tom presents Having a Baby on a Budget posted at StupidCents, saying, “Having a baby on a budget will change your finances forever. Budgeting for a baby is something I want to be prepared for when the time comes.”
Odysseas presents Not Even the Unemployed are Exempt Come Tax Time posted at Wallet Blog, saying, “If you’ve recently lost your job, you’ll be frustrated to find out that you still have to pay taxes on your unemployment benefits — but I have a few tips on how you can lessen this burden on your financial situation.”
Also, if you are interested in hosting an upcoming edition of the Carnival, take a quick look at the hosting requirements, and then contact Budgeting in the Fun Stuff about arranging a hosting date.
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***Wedding stats sourced from http://www.businessinsider.com/most-expensive-weddings-2010-7#1-prince-charles-and-lady-diana-12
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It may even be that a change of lifestyle can help get your finances back under control more quickly and easily than applying for a debt consolidation loan. If this is the case, then look for a zero interest credit card transfer deal and use the free period to pay down the balance. This will be far cheaper than any new loan can ever be.
How about you all? Have you ever used debt consolidation loans? If your debt was spiraling out of control, what method would you use to combat the problem? Did you ever consider 0% interest credit card balance transfers?
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Jacob’s Thoughts – Listed below are my random thoughts as I was reading this article.
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The following guest post was written by me in February of this year for Life and My Finances as part of a “Yakezie blog swap” where members of the Yakezie Personal Finance Blogging Network pair up and exchange guest postings on a common topic. The topic of this blog swap was to discuss a time that you were happy that you splurged on a purchase. I wanted to post it here as well so that you all would have a copy! Enjoy!
Clearly, this is a significant investment of money in backpacking gear.
However, I was glad that I made the purchases because 1) I had done a significant amount of hiking and knew that backpacking was something I wanted to take up more seriously, 2) my cash flow while working at a full time engineering job would be more than my income in graduate school (which has turned out to be 67% lower than my f/t job income by the way), and 3) getting more involved with hiking would be directly in line with my Purposed Focused Financial Plan and my life values.
Financial Lessons Learned From Splurge # 2
How about you all? How often do you splurge on purchases? Are you more often glad that you did, or do you wish you could undo your actions?
Share your experiences by commenting below!
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The title of the infographic below is “Financial Responsibility in the United States.” I have to admit that I literally “laughed out loud” when I saw this title (please pardon the reference to emoticon abbreviations – i.e. LOL). Why did this title make me laugh, you may ask?
Simple. The concept of being financially responsible in the US seems to be becoming less and less important. Why own something when you can just buy the car or cell phone on credit, right? Therefore, maybe a better title to this graphic would have been “Financial Irresponsibility in the United States?!”
Regardless of my personal feelings on the situation, the infographic gives some important insight in to the credit scores of the US public. I’ve tried to summarize these in bulleted form below:
How To Find Your Credit Score Absolutely Free (no credit card information required)
If you have read my previous series on building credit history and improving your credit score, you’ll know that I am a big fan of using Annualcreditreport.com to obtain my credit report for free once per year.
However, one thing that I have been making up stupid excuses about not doing is checking my actual credit score. One of the these less-than-robust excuses was that I didn’t want to pay the $15-$30 to check my credit score through one of the three credit agencies – Transunion, Experian, or Equifax.
But, this all changed last week when I was reading a blog post from a blogger friend describing her use of CreditKarma.com to get her real time credit score absolutely for free at any time! Since it seemed to have worked for her and more importantly, be secure, I decided to give it a go!
To find out your credit score for free from CreditKarma, simply follow the easy steps below:
Summary of My Results
So, overall, I was very satisfied with my credit score of 754. It is above average, especially for someone that is my age. I could definitely improve my score by 1) signing up for fewer free money sign up bonus offers from credit cards and 2) setting up small automatic payments on all of my credit cards each month in order to show that those accounts are active.
Does This Sound Too Good To Be True?
If you’re like me, you probably are thinking that this Credit Karma thing sounds too good to be true. However, it really is something that makes sense, if you think about how Credit Karma is making their money.
This question can be answered by one word – advertising.
Credit Karma has figured out that by offering credit scores for free, they drive an enormous amount of traffic to their site. Furthermore, because Credit Karma displays your credit score, it enables them display credit card and bank account offers to you that you are pre-qualified for. And, credit card and bank companies will pay big money for this type of “captive” audience. This is how Credit Karma makes their money! Pretty reasonable/logical if you ask me!
How about you all? What resource do you use to check your credit score? Have you ever used Credit Karma? Are there any other resources out there to get your credit score for free?
Share your experiences by commenting below!
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The following is a guest post by editors at SmallBusinessLoansDirect.com. Enjoy!
How about you all? Have you ever bought a foreclosed property? If so, would you recommend it to others? What were the positives and negatives?
Share your experiences by commenting below!
Jacob’s Thoughts – Listed below are my random thoughts as I was reading this article.
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1. Robert @ The College Investor presents I Started Moving My Finances and Business To The Cloud… posted at The College Investor.
One of the cool things about being a personal finance blogger is that it enables me to stay “in-the-know” about new products, particularly online products, that come out that can help us manage our finances (and life in general). In today’s culture, it’s no longer sufficient to say, “Oh, that document is at home on my home computer.” People expect the documents to be accessible, on the fly, from any computer. This post from Robert reminds us of the utility and importance of using cloud (or online resources) computing to identify ways to improve our finances, save money, and live more frugally. Great job Robert! I am a big fan of Google Docs as well.
2. Sandy presents $2M Lottery Winner Uses Food Stamps posted at Yes, I Am Cheap.
It seems like it is a rarity to hear of a lottery winner actually living frugally after winning the lottery. However, it appears that the $2M Michigan lottery winner described in this insightful article by Sandy is doing just that. By finding a loophole in the Michigan finance laws, the man is able to continue qualifying for food stamps because the law doesn’t classify lottery winnings as income. Interesting stuff! What do you think? Should lottery winnings be classified as income or assets?
3. Annabelle Foster presents Quiz: What kind of frugal are you? posted at The Year of Shopping Detox.
Go Blogger-hosted Blogs! Represent! This article by The Year of Shopping Detox (a site that I was just exposed to) presents us readers with a series of 6 questions about our spending habits and how we pass the time. She then provides guidelines as to what different trends in our answers can indicate in regards to the type of frugal person we are. Take the quiz and see how you score! I scored in the A category.
FMF presents How to Win Friends with Coupons posted at Free Money Finance.
Evan presents What Do You Have to Do Mathematically to Get to Your Goal posted at My Journey to Millions.
Boomer presents Maybe I Should Just Stop Watching TV! posted at Boomer & Echo.
Aparna presents Home-made face wash posted at Beauty and Personal Grooming.
Fanny presents 4 Cheap DVD Rentals posted at Living Richly on a Budget.
Sonja Stewart presents 25 Great Everyday Uses For Vinegar posted at Parenting Squad.
Rhonda Franz presents Simplifying Family Meals posted at Parenting Squad.
vh presents Shingles Shot: Pricey! But Worth It… posted at Funny about Money.
Kyle James presents 5 Reasons TLC’s Extreme Couponing is Extremely Lame posted at Rather-Be-Shopping.com Blog.
Glen presents How to Avoid Free Trial Scams and What to Do if You Suspect You are a Victim posted at Free From Broke.
Money Thinker presents Make Sure you Never Pay Full Price- 5 Tips posted at Money Thinking.
Tom presents Ways to Save Money on your Mobile Phone Bill posted at StupidCents.
Squirrelers presents Cheapskates Visit Vegas posted at Squirrelers.
Marjorie presents Card Hub’s Island Approach to Credit Card Spending posted at CardHub.com.
Novelet presents Save Money on Minor Car Repairs posted at The Working Poor.
Madison presents I Joined a Book Club… and Found the Electronic Library posted at My Dollar Plan.
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On Friday of last week, My Personal Finance Journey participated in the 7th Yakezie blog swap. “What’s this strange sounding event?” you may be asking. Well, what transpires is that different members and challengers of the Yakezie Blog Network pair up and exchange posts on a common topic.
This month, our topic was: “Balancing Frugality and Fun.”
For my post, I shared 5 different techniques everyone can use to balance frugality and fun at Money Talks Coaching.
I hope you enjoyed the articles as much as I did!
How about you all? How do you find the right balance between being frugal, but having fun at the same time?
Share your experiences by commenting below!
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Balancing frugality and fun relies on one tactic. It requires focusing on the people in your life rather than your stuff.
You can spend all of the money in the world, but if you have to spend that money alone, it wouldn’t be very much fun. Conversely, being in a room with your favorite people can be a blast and cost nothing.
When you look back at your fondest memories, they include the people you were with, right? You might not remember how much dinner cost, or what you were wearing, but you remember who was there. You remember the jokes, the laughter, the good times. Those things are free.
A good friend is the most valuable thing you have, and it costs nothing to obtain. A smile, a joke, and a kind gesture are all free. Good friends help you to be happier, healthier, and will help you live longer. These amazing benefits can be had for free!
However, even in friendship, you have to watch your wallet. Some friendships are based on spending money together. Be careful of this. If your friend always wants to spend money or pressures you into buying the latest iPhone or Dolce and Gabbana purse, then you need to mindful. Breaking the budget in the name of friendship might be fun, but it isn’t frugal.
I had a friend that liked to meet for lunch. If you’ve known me for 5 minutes, then you know I like to eat out, so that wasn’t the problem. The problem was that she always picked expensive places. This is fine every once in a while, but I couldn’t pull it off every week.
So, sometimes, I would have to suggest pizza instead of the new trendy place. Or, I would even invite her over to my place for lunch once in a while. The point wasn’t the lunch, the point was spending time together. Lunch just facilitated us hanging out. I didn’t see my friend as an excuse to eat lunch out. Lunch was an excuse to see my friend. If you keep the emphasis on the friendship instead of the lunch, you can balance frugality and fun.
After school activities for the kids are another place where you have to be careful to balance the frugality with the fun. You sign them up because you think it will be fun. You knew you would have to pay the initial fee, but then you are buying equipment, uniforms, snacks, chipping in for gifts, for the coach, transporting kids all over town, throwing team parties, buying professional pictures, and it seems like it never ends.
Help your wallet and your kid’s expectations of money by keeping the focus on the activity. Why did you sign up for the activity? Stay focused on that. Was it to meet people in the area or was it to learn a sport? Don’t get sidetracked. If the goal was to learn the sport, then stay with that. Do you need to throw a party to learn a sport? Do you need professional pictures? Do you need special pants? If the fun was to play baseball, then balance the frugality by cutting out the extras.
Being frugal doesn’t mean you can’t have fun. The spirit of frugality is to get the most out of your money. I certainly don’t think you are getting the most out of your money if you aren’t having fun. When you only spend money on the things that matter you can have more fun. You can spend those dollars where they will give you the most happiness. Being frugal means you can have more lunches with friends and more activities for your kids.
I hope you’ve enjoyed this post. To close, I’ll leave you with an insightful quote I found!
If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can’t buy. – Author Unknown
How about you all? How do you balance frugality and fun? Do you know any one that does either a really BAD job or a really GOOD job at this? What do they do?
Share your experiences by commenting below!
Jacob’s Thoughts – Listed below are my random thoughts as I was reading this article.
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