
When you’re in your 40s, you may begin to feel a great deal of financial pressure. Your children are growing up, and the expenses associated with that begin to pile up. You may find yourself shelling out money for more expensive extracurricular activities, higher grocery bills thanks to your children’s endless appetites, car payments so your children can begin driving themselves, car insurance payments, and college tuition.
As if that is not enough to put a strain on your budget, this may also be the time when your aging parents need more support, both financially and physically. You may be helping them out monetarily or helping them out physically, which may mean less time at work for you as well as less income.
This decade, more than any other, is the one where your choices can make or break your future retirement. This is partly because if you make a mistake financially in your 40s, there is not much time to recover financially, unlike mistakes you may make in your 20s when you have four or five decades to recover before retirement.
In your 40s, be careful to avoid these financial mistakes:
Refinancing your home for a significantly lower interest rate is a smart money move. However, too often, people refinance to lower their interest rate, but then they also extend the life of the mortgage. True, this can reduce your monthly payment, which may offer you financial relief now, but it can later wreak havoc with your finances and your target retirement date.
Let’s say you bought a house when you were 35, and you pay on the loan for 10 years. You are now 45 and have just 20 years left on your loan; you would own the home free and clear at age 65. This works out rather nicely as 65 is a time when many people retire. However, if you refinance at 45 and extend the loan back to the original 30 year term to lower your payment and create some financial breathing room in your budget, your home won’t be paid off until your 75. This can cause quite a strain in retirement.
Many people do not have enough money set aside in their retirement account to comfortably cover a house payment, especially as medical expenses typically increase as you age.
You may say that you won’t retire until the home is paid off, but you can’t always control that. Sometimes medical issues make retirement come earlier than planned.
When you feel a financial crunch, your first thought may be to tap the equity in your house by taking out a home equity loan. After all, the interest rates are usually much lower than a loan you can take out at your bank or a credit card. You can also extend repayment time, often to 10 or even 15 years, which is typically not available on a loan that you get from the bank.
However, if you’re unable to make your home equity loan payments, you can lose your house just as you could if you weren’t able to make your mortgage payment. In addition, if your home loses value during the time you’re repaying your home equity loan, you may find yourself underwater, meaning you owe more on the house than the house is worth. If you need to sell during this time, you would need to pay the difference between the current value of the house and what you still owe between the mortgage and the home equity loan, which is often tens of thousands of dollars. Too often, people who are underwater are unable to even put their home on the market because they know they won’t be able to generate the money needed to pay off the house loan when they sell their house.
When your child is ready to attend college, you may feel a natural instinct to help him. College is expensive, and you may not want your child saddled with student loan debt. However, there are plenty of alternatives to taking out student loans for your child.
First, let your children know, from the time they are in upper elementary school, that you will not be able to help pay for their college education. (Does this sound too harsh? Trust me, your children will be glad when you’re retirement age and have enough money to take care of yourself because you made saving for your own retirement a priority. Your children will be glad that you are not their financial responsibility, especially when they’re just starting out.)
By letting your children know this early, they can pick local colleges that will be cheaper, they can apply for scholarships and grants, and they can save money themselves for college.
Yes, if you don’t take out loans for your children, they will probably have to take out student loans themselves. Remember, they are the ones who may qualify for loan forgiveness based on their career. That will never be an option when a parent holds student loans. Also, children with student loans can choose an income-contingent based repayment plan; parents can’t.
The government takes very seriously defaulting on student loans and will recoup their money if you stop paying. “Federal payments to borrowers who have not made scheduled loan repayments can be withheld to repay the loan, including tax refunds and Social Security retirement or disability benefits” (US News).
Finally, if you don’t take out student loans for your children and you’re doing well financially and saving enough for retirement, you can always choose to help your children pay down their student loans faster.
Simply put—don’t take out student loans for your children. Just don’t do it. You and your child will be glad you didn’t twenty years from now.
Once you start to amass a fair amount in your retirement account, you may be tempted to tap into that account when you hit a financial bind, which is likely in your forties. However, there are significant drawbacks to raiding your retirement fund.
First, you lose the ability for the money you withdraw to continue generating interest and growing your nest egg further.
Second, you’ll need to pay a 10% penalty for withdrawing the money if you’re under the allowable age.
Third, the money that you withdraw will count as taxable income on your tax returns, so you’ll also need to pay taxes in addition to the 10% penalty.
Your 40s can be the time when you secure your retirement funding and can begin to plan for a relaxing, enjoyable retirement. However, as you face dual financial stress in your 40s from increased financial needs from your growing children and your aging parents, you may feel pressure to find more money to infuse in the budget. This pressure can lead to any of the above unwise financial decisions that can derail your retirement plans and lead you to a difficult financial position in your 60s and 70s.
How about you all? What financial moves do you suggest people in their 40s avoid to keep their future retirement secure?

Young Americans under the age of 35, who are often referred to as millennials, are increasingly avoiding credit cards and the debt that tends to come with them. Roughly 63 percent of millennials don’t have a credit card, versus only 35 percent of older adults, according to data from the Federal Reserve. The data also suggested that millennials are using credit cards less than people of a similar age did in the past.
The number of Americans under the age of 35 holding credit card debt has reached its lowest level since the data was first collected in 1989. According to the Survey of Consumer Finances, roughly 37 percent of American households headed by someone aged 35 and under held credit card debt in 2013. That is down nearly a quarter from immediately before the financial crisis that began in 2008. The level has not fallen as much for any other age group.
There are numerous reasons for millennials’ avoidance of credit cards. Some young Americans say that they are avoiding credit cards because they have lived through the damage such debt caused during the financial crisis. Others say that they avoid credit cards because they do not trust the financial markets. Some watched as consumer and small business credit lines were cut off in the midst of the financial crisis.
Some millennials are dealing with much larger student debt loads than previous generations. The Project for Student Debt found that student debt increased an average of 6 percent each year from 2008 to 2012. According to federal data, the average American under the age of 35 now has $17,200 of student debt. That is 182 percent higher than Americans of the same age had in 1995. These burdensome student debt loads make it hard for them to take on any more debt.
Laws passed after the financial crisis also make it much harder for younger people to secure credit cards. The Credit Card Accountability, Responsibility and Disclosure Act of 2009, or CARD Act, mandated that borrowers must prove they have the means to repay the debt. The CARD Act also altered the lending landscape by restricting the ability of banks to market their products on college campuses. Today, many of the tents that credit card companies used to pitch all over college campuses to advertise their products have vanished.
Many young Americans believe the risks involved with debt outweigh the benefits. Credit cards offer the temptation to spend beyond one’s means. The idea with a credit card is you’re essentially putting money down that you don’t have and making a promise to repay it back with additional money for the convenience of having what you want right now. Some millennials simply prefer to pay for things as they go, without having to worry about paying a bill later.
Millions of millennials are using payment methods that do not involve debt for their purchases. Debit cards, which draw funds directly from a bank account, offer many of the same payment advantages as credit cards without the risk of accumulating debt. For online purchases, an app like Venmo or an online payment service like PayPal can be used.
Millennials’ avoidance of credit cards could prove detrimental in the long term, not just for them, but for the financial system as well. Historically, credit card use during the young adult years have made Americans more comfortable with making larger purchases with debt when they are older. Having a credit card also helped them establish a credit score, giving them more access to financial services later in life.
Having a good credit score is more important for this generation than previous ones because today, many more things are tied to credit scores. Credit scores are used to determine interest rates on mortgages and personal loans, may be used as a qualification for a rental home or employment opportunity, and may be used in the determination of insurance premiums. Those with low credit scores or non-existent credit histories find themselves paying more for the same financial services that others obtain at a much lower rate.
Fortunately, millennials don’t need to go into debt to get a good credit score. By paying off the credit card debt completely each month, they can still have good reports sent to the credit bureaus based on the open account. However, a survey by Bankrate found that only 40 percent of millennials with credit cards pay off their balances in full each month, compared with 53 percent of older adults. Millennials were also most likely to miss payments completely.
For millennials that do choose to use a credit card, picking the right card is key. Those just starting with credit cards should choose the card with the lowest annual interest rate without being distracted by offers for cash back or rewards. Until you have experience using the card, you will not know whether the rewards offered are worth it or even if you will spend enough to qualify for the rewards. You can always get an additional card with rewards after you have established your credit history.
Finding a credit card with a reasonable interest rate may be difficult for most millennials. According to Experian, the average millennial has a VantageScore of 628, which lenders largely consider subprime. Even for millennials with higher scores, the lowest available APRs offered on new credit cards topped 15 percent on average last summer according to CreditCards.com, marking a five-year high. These rates are expected to rise with future rate hikes by the Federal Reserve, as there are legal limits on certain card fees but no limit on APRs.
While choosing the best interest rate seems simple, it isn’t. Even after you have the card, it’s best to simply assume that the company can change your rate at any time for any reason. The key to ensuring that the rate stays as low as possible is minding the fine print and playing by the rules.
Be aware of when introductory offers end and what transactions they apply to. Review the information for all the fees that apply to the card, including annual fees, balance transfer fees, and cash advance fees, even if you don’t think you would ever use that service. There are many websites available online that will compile the information for several different cards into an easy to read format for comparison.
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You can make a significant difference to your financial success by making use of the services of a good, independent financial advisor. Financial advisors help you make decisions that are tailored to your circumstances.
Perhaps, like most people, you feel you don’t need professional help. This might be fine in the short term but could severely impact your success further down the line. All financial advisors, however, like all professionals offering services, are not equal.
Here is a list of questions that you can ask yourself when reviewing your current or prospective financial advisor:
Are they independent?
Financial planners are either tied agents or independent agents. Tied agents work for a particular product provider(an example of this would be a retirement annuity offered by a certain company) and may be incentivized to sell certain products. Independent agents earn no commission off of products they sell and do not work for a particular provider.
Independent advisors tend to be more objective and use their experience to create a path to your financial goals. They help you make sense of all the products that are available to you and can help you pick ones that best suit your financial needs and circumstances.
What are their qualifications?
All financial advisors are required by law to be licensed by the Financial Services Board or FSB. In order to get the license, an advisor needs to pass the regulatory exams and fulfill the Fit and Proper requirements defined by the FSB. These requirements include honesty, competency, and integrity. All financial advisors need to prove to the FSB, on a continuous basis, that they are maintaining and developing their professional competency.
In addition to these basics, you should inquire about the advisor’s academic or other credentials. Reading the disclosure document provided to you will give you an idea of all the products the financial advisor is licensed to recommend and advise on.
What is the fee structure?
Full disclosure and transparency are very important. It is best to that your financial advisor explains to you exactly what kind of fees you will need to pay and how they would work.
Fees are generally charged as a percentage of the value of an investment. There could be initial and ongoing fees, thus it is important to identify the costs. Some advisors use a different fee structure. They charge directly for advice provided, usually at an hourly rate. Any fees should not be charged or paid without an agreement upfront.
How can they help you grow your wealth?
Good advisors take the time to understand your needs and help to put a plan in place that reflects your financial goals and risk appetite. They can help you invest with more discipline and can offer rational guidance before your emotions lead you astray.
Investors often buy and sell investments or switch between products at the wrong time due to an emotional reaction to the market. This can potentially destroy the value of your investment. A financial advisor helps you to remain focused on your goals. They play a huge role in helping you grow your wealth. By growing and nurturing your relationship with a financial advisor you can rest assured that your investments are adjusted to your needs rather than your emotions.
Where can you find a financial advisor?
Trust is very important in this relationship, therefore a good starting point for your search for an advisor would be to get a recommendation from someone whose opinion and judgment you can trust.

I’m turning fifty this year. All in all, I’m happy about fifty. Life is good and I’ve learned lessons that have helped us overcome a massive financial mess. But along with the many good decisions I’ve made, I’ve made my fair share of mistakes along with way – many of them financial ones. If I could go back in time and talk with my teen-aged self, here’s what I’d tell her about money.
I always had this thought growing up that there was a set amount of money in the world and that either you had it or you didn’t. I grew up believing that whether you were rich or poor was largely out of your control, and we were on the poor side. I’ve learned through side hustling that money is always available somewhere if you’re willing to go out and find it and work for it. The want ads are bustling with opportunities for work, as are sites like Upwork and Craigslist.
The work opportunities out there may not always be pleasing to one’s palette, but they are available. If I could go back and talk to my teen self, I’d tell her not to cling to her job as if it was the only one available, because there’s always other opportunities to earn money for those willing to work to find them.
Since I grew up poor and was taught (inadvertently) that we were destined to be poor, my mindset was that there was no use in trying to change things. I believed this up into my mid-forties, and then I found personal finance blogs. As I read the stories of dozens of people climbing out from under their debt, I realized that we could too.
From there my husband and I began a long process of figuring out why we were always broke, and we learned that we were self-sabotaging our money management because we’d both been under the false belief that we would always struggle for money. We were piddling away our money on small, useless things like drive-thru meals and cable TV, not realizing the impact those “little” spends were having on our bank account.
We were so lack-minded that we’d start to feel panic if we had a little bit of money in savings. It just didn’t feel right. I know that sounds odd, but when you’ve lived with a belief long enough – no matter how wrong that belief is – anything contrary feels wrong.
We had to teach ourselves that, more than deserving “stuff”, we deserved financial security. This is what I’d tell 16-year-old me: How you view money affects how much money you’ll have.
Growing up poor in the public school system is not fun. I remember being teased about my two-dollar canvas tennis shoes and thrift store jeans. These memories convinced me that “stuff” meant acceptance. When I got my first job in fast food at 15, I spent nearly every dime I made on clothes at the local County Seat (give me a shout if you’re old enough to remember that store J ).
Eventually – but not soon enough – I learned that the pursuit of the approval of the Joneses is fruitless. If I could tell my teen self that, she’d be one rich woman right now.
When we were struggling for money and deep in debt, we could never think beyond making it to the next payday and hoping we’d have enough money to pay the bills. If we ended the month in the positive (which didn’t happen very often) it was a good month.
Once we started to pay off our debt, save money and manage our lives differently, we learned to think bigger. Our original goal was to simply have enough money to make it through the month. Then our goal changed to paying off some of our debt. Then we wanted all of our debt gone. Our new goal is financial independence – for the purpose of helping others.
The great thing about learning to think bigger is that it allows you to take others into consideration besides yourself. We now give away more money and “stuff” than we ever have before. We’re making an impact for good on others and aren’t so focused on ourselves. If I could go back in time, I’d tell my teen self to expect more out of life than just making it to the next payday. I’d tell her to think BIG and allow herself to imagine a better future – one where she could journey toward success and help others in the process.
How about you all? What would you tell your teen self about money?
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Back during the summer of 2014, Facebook was “overflowing” with videos of people dumping buckets of ice water over their heads. The Ice Bucket Challenge was mentioned more than 2.2 million times on Twitter and over 1.2 million videos were posted to Facebook. There, some 15 million people either commented or “liked” the Ice Bucket Challenge. Meanwhile, all of the major TV news entities carried stories about it.
And, $220 million dollars were raised for the Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis (ALS) Association to help find a cure for Lou Gehrig’s Disease.
A brilliant example of ecommerce guerilla marketing done right, the campaign was easily doable, exceptionally social and highly flattering to the participants. People could take pride in doing something good, being “nominated” made them look important and they could do it without appearing narcissistic. After all, they were simply responding to a challenge—for a very worthy cause.
While it might look like the ALS Association captured lightning in a bottle — mainly because it did — this strategy is pretty easy to duplicate with a bit of outside-the-box thinking.
In 2010, James McDowell, MINI’s North American president, appeared in a You Tube video challenging Porsche to a race at Road Atlanta (Porsche’s home track in North America). A legendary sports car builder, Porsche’s 911 Carrera S of 2010 made 385 horsepower to the MINI Cooper S’s 172.
That Porsche would easily win the race was a no-brainer—or was it?
Ultimately, it didn’t matter, because Porsche refused the challenge.
When this happened, McDowell made another video and even hired a plane to tow a banner over the Porsche headquarters challenging them once again. Porsche still refused, so MINI got a 911 on its own and ran the race anyway.
In the end, over 300,000 people watched the videos on You Tube and MINI’s Facebook page spiked to 82,000 views on the day of the race. The MINI vs. Porsche Facebook tab generated 400,000 views, along with 15,000 petition signatures goading Porsche to race and nearly 8,000 new fans for MINI. Print, TV and online coverage earned MINI 3.3 million impressions. The company also made its mark as a builder of fun to drive cars and got them thought of in the same breath as Porsche.
Regardless of the outcome of the race, MINI had already chalked up a win.
Anyone who has ever been to an event like South by Southwest (SXSW) knows you come home with a bag full of swag. Water bottles, T-shirts, backpacks, hats—all sorts of stuff. Companies spend hundreds of thousands of dollars to produce these items, which they give away. People take them home, stuff them in drawers for a few years, then throw it all out to make room for more free stuff they’ll never use.
Medallia, a Silicon Valley tech company, teamed with Austin’s Foundation for the Homeless at SXSW to give convention swag to the homeless. Hats, book bags, water bottles, T-shirts and even food were collected and donated. Medallia had people stationed around the event wearing “Donate Your Swag” T-shirts, who directed people to drop the goods they’d collected at a Medallia booth in front of the Austin Convention Center.
In the process, Medallia created a significant presence for itself at the event, without spending tons of money. In fact, the company leveraged the spending of other companies to attract attention to its booth. Through finding a way to help other people, Medallia helped itself.
Ideas such as these are creative, fun and grab attention. They are also extremely cost-effective when you consider results garnered vs. dollars spent. Rather, “how will I go about spreading brand awareness in a cost-effective and fun way?

If you’re looking for something truly powerful to do differently with your money this year, and you really want to ramp up your savings, then look no further than your 401(k) (or whatever tax-deferred savings plan you use)
Follow this simple advice: Max it out!
I’m serious. Though it won’t necessarily be easy, by maxing out your savings, you could be pocketing an extra $4,500 this year. ($9,000 if you’re married).
Here’s how it all works.
One of the things that is hard for people to really wrap their heads around is the idea of just how much money they are actually saving by using a tax-deferred retirement account such as a 401(k).
When taken to the extremes, the results are phenomenal! Let me illustrate.
The classic way to save money is to simply do the following:
Let’s say for simplicity that your gross (before taxes) bi-weekly pay is $3,000. This means that:
Good effort! But you’re missing out on an opportunity; a 33% more savings opportunity to be exact!
How so?
Follow the same math but use a 401(k) plan this time. Here’s how it’s different:
Do you see how that works? You net the SAME amount of spending money in the end, but your savings went way up!
By how much?
($300 – $225) / $225 = 33% more!
How is that possible?
It’s simple. You paid yourself instead of the tax-man. By taking full advantage of a tax-deferred savings account, for every dollar you save, you’re NOT sending off 25 cents of it to the IRS. You’re hanging on to it; keeping the full dollar for yourself.
Though that may not sound like a big accomplishment, when you really take advantage of this opportunity to the fullest extent, its true potential is revealed.
The IRS will allow you to save all the way up to $18,000 this year in your 401(k). Using the same numbers as before, that could end up being a total of $4,500 MORE that you save for yourself (instead of handing over to the government). If both you and your spouse do the same thing, then it doubles to $9,000 more for the two you! That’s an incredible amount of savings!
How do I get there?
First off: I completely understand that deferring $18,000 into your 401(k) is not something that is going to happen over-night. For most people it’s a struggle, and it certainly was for us.
However, once you recognize how powerful this savings tool is, it can become like a deal that is too good to pass up. Over time, you’ll want to make every attempt imaginable to save money where you can so that you can take advantage of this opportunity more and more.
As if taking full advantage of your 401(k) and getting 33% more savings wasn’t cool enough, you should also know that tax-avoidance doesn’t have to stop there. There are plenty of other tricks at your disposal to use as well.
IRA’s. IRA’s are great because they are like a 401(k) but you have a lot more control over where the money gets invested and how you handle it. No matter whether you prefer a traditional or a Roth, make every effort available to try to max out these accounts as well.
Even if all you qualify for is a non-deductible traditional IRA, remember that you can always convert it over to a Roth at a later time. Then you’ll enjoy tax-free spending on the back end!
Employer Contributions. Does your employer contribute money to your 401(k)? If so, that’s ALSO tax-deferred money that you get to keep! Find out from your HR exactly what the rules are and do whatever you have to in order to max this out. If not, you’re leaving free money on the table!
FSA’s. If your employer offers a flexible spending account (FSA) for dependent care or health care expenses, this is another golden opportunity for you to save hundreds of dollars in the process. FSA’s allow you to save a portion of your gross income for special needs before the taxes are taken out. Here’s an article from the IRS about how they work.
For years, my wife and I would contribute the IRS maximum of $5,000 into our FSA . That money would simply be turned around and used to pay off our daycare expenses. But like the example above with the 401(k), had we NOT used the FSA, then after taxes that $5,000 would have really only been $3,750. The FSA effectively gave us an extra $1,250 to use on our kids.
Now that the kids are older, we still use the FSA for our health care needs. Though the IRS maximum is lower, we still end up getting hundreds of extra dollars to use on our medical bills that would have normally went away to the IRS.
529 Savings. If you’ve got kids and would like to set money aside for them to use for college, then a 529 savings plan is one of the better ways to go. A 529 savings is similar to a IRA, but instead of the end goal being retirement, you use the money to help pay for higher education needs like tuition, room and board, etc. You can see what kind of 529 plans are available in your state with this website here.
We’ve been contributing a very small amount of money to our children’s 529 funds for years. Every year when I receive our statements, I’m amazed by how much the money has grown up to in just a few short years. Thank you compounding returns!
Readers – What are some of the ways that you take full advantage of tax-deferred savings?
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The holiday season is winding down. While the holiday time is an exciting time to relax and spend time with family, it can also be quite stressful on your finances due to all the costs associated with the holidays.
Many people spend hundreds or even thousands of dollars on purchasing holiday gifts, decorations, hosting and attending parties and events, and so on.
Nothing stings more than getting into debt this time of year. One thing you can do to avoid spending more than you earn over the next few weeks is to find ways to earn more money to cover the increased expenses over the past few months.
Here are 5 ways to earn extra money fast to either prepare for or recover from the holiday season.
Earning extra money through a seasonal job is a good idea if you are worried about stretching your budget for the holidays.
Seasonal jobs tend to provide a consistent income (even though it’s temporary) because business usually picks up during the fall and holiday seasons.
Many businesses like Amazon.com will be looking for online customer service reps this holiday season to assist shoppers and answer questions about purchases, shipping inquiries, and more.
This positions with Amazon range from $12 – $15 per hour on average and can last up to 6 months or longer if you leave a lasting impression and they need to take on a regular employee.
You can also try working as a seasonal associate at busy stores like Target, Walmart, K-Mart etc. Or, try getting holiday-themed gigs like doing photography at the mall or decorating store fronts.
If you’re looking to earn some extra money from home, you can test out websites during your spare time and offer your honest feedback.
UserTesting is a popular website that pays people to review other websites and blogs.
Testers get paid $10 for each 20-minute review and they just answer simple questions and record their first impressions and experience navigating through the website.
It’s not a ton of money, but it will add up once all those unexpected holiday expenses start trickling in.
If you’re buying new gifts for people in your family, it’s the perfect time to clean out your home by selling items you no longer use.
You can sell items online via Amazon, Ebay, or Craigslist, or you can sell them directly to buy-back consignment shops.
If you have old clothes, movies, furniture, children’s toys etc. there are many small stores that may buy them back from you if they are in good condition. Plato’s Closet, Once Upon a Child, Clothes Mentor, and Disc Replay are all national chains and there are plenty other options depending on where you live.
If you don’t have many consignment shops in your area, stick to selling your items online for better results.
My husband recently started driving for Uber and he loves it. His car is older (a 2006 I believe) and we live in the suburbs but he still gets a decent amount of trips and his side income is currently helping him be able to afford holiday expenses this year.
Uber also pays drivers every week, so if you get started now, you can get paid a few times before Christmas.
One of my friends recently quit a job he didn’t like to drive for Uber and Lyft. Lyft drivers also get paid weekly and Lyft allows drivers to receive tips. According to Lyft, around 60% of passengers tip.
No matter which rideshare option you choose, you can enjoy flexible work and drive to earn money whenever it’s convenient for you.
If you have friends, family, and neighbors who may be busier over these next few weeks, consider offering to babysit for them. Couples love date nights and since daycares aren’t open in the evening, you can market your services better around that time.
Making a profile on Care.com or Sittercity.com will also help you land clients.
If you can’t or don’t want to watch kids, consider babysitting pets by walking dogs or keeping an eye on them when their owners are out of town.
You can advertise your services in your neighborhood and I always recommend Rover.com which is a site that connects pet sitters and dog walkers with owners who are in need of the service.
If you need extra money to recover from the holidays, you can earn money quickly by trying any of these ideas.
The key is to get started so you know how much you need to earn.
How about you all? How are you earning extra money to recover from the holidays?
Share your experiences by commenting below!
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My spouse, one adult son and I recently returned from a trip to Hawaii from the mainland. Here are a few things I learned while traveling.
I did start looking early – in June for an October flight. I had read that prices typically go down when you get closer to the travel date. So when, I saw a great flight (i.e. one that left after dawn and arrived in the early afternoon with just two stops) at a price of around $950 a person, I didn’t snap it up.
As time went by, the flights kept getting worse and the prices higher. I finally snared three tickets at around $1090 each, but the flight there from the mainland had 2 stops instead of one and it arrived in Honolulu 4 hours later than that great flight I found first.
Unfortunately, this flight went through Dallas and the day we left home, Dallas had weather. We got on the plane, sat there waiting to take off and the pilot announced that we were delayed due to weather in Dallas and we would get an update on the hour (it was quarter after the hour – so not even an update for 45 minutes). When the update finally came through, it wasn’t good. We were allowed off the plane. Thank heavens my son got right in line to try to re-route. It took at least half and hour for him to get to the head of the line and we were the last folks to get helped. We ended up leaving at 12:30 pm instead of 8 am, going to Chicago, then San Francisco then Maui and finally into Honolulu – actually arriving at around midnight their time – which meant that we had been en route for 24 hours. However, if we hadn’t re-routed, we would have spent the night in the Dallas airport instead!
I did manage to do this right. I had 2 tall men with me so I booked them into aisle seats and took the middle seat. We did get these seats, except the on the re-routed flight.
The airline we traveled on (indeed most airlines today) charge at least $25 to check one bag and more as the number you check increases. We already had decided to travel light, just using a carry on and a personal bag. The airline we traveled on had requirements posted for carry on bags that were smaller than my roll on bag, so I borrowed duffel bags from my other son to take.
I also used a soft side laptop bag instead of a purse – and outfitted my spouse the same way.
It was lucky that we used duffel bags instead of a wheeled carrier as there were multiple legs where folks with wheeled carriers had to be checked prior to boarding.
Update: On some airlines, you now can only carry on a bag that fits under the seat – you have to pay extra to use the overhead bins!
Since we would be in hot weather most of the time, but were going to see the stars at the Mauna Kea visitor center where the temperature can be below freezing, we needed multiple kinds of clothes. I wore my heaviest shoes, carried my jacket and wore layers of clothes. The jacket came in handy as a pillow on the plane.
Be sure to check to make sure your clothes don’t have metal on them though. One of my shirts had a metal zipper so I got patted down three times at security check points! Quite embarrassing.
Knowing we would be late arriving in Honolulu, I checked the operating hours for the rental car agency and saw that it would be close. I also saw that they wanted to know if you would be late and would hold (maybe) your reservation if you called.
I did call while waiting for a flight in a very noisy airport. The number I called was supposed to be the local rental agency but wasn’t. The lady on the phone had to put me on hold and get hold of them to see if they would stay to get my car to me. Luckily they agreed to have someone there at midnight when we arrived!
I did take ear phones, but they weren’t very good ones. I had rented a movie on my Kindle to watch in flight, but couldn’t hear it with my cheap ear phones!
Mine came in handy on the two over night flights we ended up having.
Even 5 hour flights don’t serve much food anymore.
Although we wanted our bags with us on the way out, on the way home we eagerly volunteered to check our bags at the gate – complimentary instead of a $25 fee.
On almost each leg, the airline offered to check carry on for free at the gate, saying that the flight was crowded and there wouldn’t be enough room to handle all the carry on bags.
We figured, coming home, it wouldn’t matter if we had to wait to retrieve bags and it wouldn’t be tragic even if they were lost or delayed. Of course, we kept the laptop bag with our valuables in it with us.
We wanted to see Pearl Harbor and I figured, with Honolulu time being 5 hours behind ours we would be up early the day after arrival. I had purchased what is called a Passport ticket – to reserve a time slot to go to the USS Arizona Memorial and to tour the USS Missouri, the USS Bowfin and see the Pacific Aviation museum. I paid in full in advance for all of us.
Since we needed sleep after our 24 hour travel time, we didn’t want to get up at 7 am to face Honolulu rush hour traffic (which is bad) to get to Pearl an hour prior to our 9 am reserved USS Arizona time slot. It took multiple phone calls to the reservation center to figure out that we could go see the rest of the stuff later in the day. Luckily, I had already booked a time slot for the second day to go back to the USS Arizona Memorial in case we wanted to – so we just went the next day to see it.
How about you all? What travel tips do you have to share?
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The following is a guest post. Enjoy!
Every year, millions of first-time homebuyers set out on a search for the perfect piece of property. They scour advertisements; they search through real estate apps; they go on countless tours and stop by untold open houses. Then, when they finally find the home of their dreams, they are utterly unprepared to make an offer.
Buying a home is more than comparing cabinet styles and deciding whether a pool is worthwhile. You must understand your mortgage options before you even consider whether you need or want granite countertops. This guide will help you determine what features you need from your home loan, so you can find and afford your dream home in no time.
Fixed vs. Adjustable
Mortgages last a long time ― typically between 15 and 30 years. Since that is such a significant amount of time for a loan, most lenders offer two options to help you manage your interest rate: fixed or adjustable. Which option you choose depends on your current income, your credit score, and a few other factors.
Fixed Rate
Fixed-rate mortgages are the most common. With these, you can expect the same interest rate for the entire duration of the mortgage loan. The primary benefit of having a fixed rate is knowing exactly what your mortgage payment will be each and every month; your home payment will never be a financial surprise. However, fixed-rate mortgages tend to have a higher interest rate ― at least initially.
Adjustable Rate
Adjustable-rate mortgages are less common but more accessible if you have poor credit. The opposite of fixed rates, adjustable rates will change over time. Most often, adjustable-rate mortgages (ARMs) are actually a hybrid product, as lenders will promise a brief fixed period before adjusting your rate.
Some buyers find ARMs preferable because they seem to have lower interest rates. However, over time, those interest rates will rise, and you likely won’t be able to predict when or how much. Therefore, you can expect financial irregularity for the duration of your loan.
Jumbo vs. Conforming
The cost of your home will also determine the type of mortgage you can obtain. Though you might not realize it, most home loans have a size cap, and not all lenders offer conforming loans, which are the standard size, and jumbo loans, which are substantially larger.
Conforming loans earn their name because they conform to the guidelines of the appropriate government-sponsored enterprise (GSE), Fanny Mae and Freddy Mac.
In 2013, these enterprises determined that the size of home loans should be limited to $417,000 for a single-family home in the United States. The GSE can do this because it purchases and sells mortgage-backed securities, which form the foundation of the housing market. In 2007, the unreliability of these securities incited the Great Recession, so adhering to the size cap for home loans should keep the economy more stable.
Conversely, jumbo loans are available from some lenders for those looking to purchase a home worth more than $417,000. However, such sizeable loans represent a marked increase in a lender’s risk, which means you must have impeccable credit, high income, and a large down payment to qualify. As long as you are prepared for the financial responsibilities of a more expensive home, a jumbo loan is an excellent mortgage option.
Conventional vs. Government-Insured
Finally, not all potential homebuyers have the credit history or liquid assets to purchase a home. Fortunately, the government offers unconventional, government-insured loan programs to help less-advantaged citizens buy property.
The benefit of having a government-insured home loan is that the government promises to pay your mortgage if you default, so lenders see the loan as no-risk. There are three main types of government-insured mortgages:
VA Loans
Typically available only to veterans or their partners, VA loans require no down payment, offer competitively low interest rates, and do not require mortgage insurance. These loans do conform to GSE guidelines, but they are incredibly easy to qualify if you or your spouse served in the Armed Forces.
FHA Loans
The Federal Housing Administration (FHA) also offers a mortgage program to low-income, low-credit homebuyers. Unlike VA loans, FHA loans require a down payment ― though it can be as low as 3.5 percent ― and mortgage insurance. However, interest rates are low.
USDA Loans
If you are willing to move to a rural community, the United States Department of Agriculture will help you secure a mortgage. Your qualification for this program depends on your income; it can be no more than 115 percent of the regional average. However, by participating, you earn exceedingly low interest rates and the opportunity to bypass a down payment, as long as you pay mortgage insurance.

When I was a kid we were always struggling for money. I remember my parents having “discussions” about money and how to work things out so the bills got paid. When I was 11, my parents divorced and what was “financially struggling” turned into “dirt poor” as my dad’s income now was shared between two families.
Dad faithfully paid his child support obligations, which covered the $250 house payment and gave us an extra $50 to live on. To say that things were tight was an understatement. There were many times when we had bare cupboards and threats from the power company to turn the heat off in the dead of winter if the bill wasn’t paid. I remember my mom calling and begging my grandma to borrow her the money to pay the heat bill. I remember not being able to afford new clothes. We shopped at thrift stores and only bought what we absolutely needed. I remember wearing $2 canvas tennis shoes while all the other kids were wearing Nikes and Converse.
Today my mom is retired and financially comfortable. Not rich, but comfortable. How did she turn things around for herself and her family? Here are five things she did to get free from being dirt poor and to create some financial stability for herself.
When my parents divorced, mom didn’t have her driver’s license and had no valuable skills for obtaining a job. When she went down to the welfare office to apply for financial support, she saw that they had opportunities for job training and took full advantage of them. She went to classes on how to interview. She bought an old used typewriter at a neighborhood garage sale and brushed up on the skills she’d learned in typing class in tenth grade, even though she hadn’t touched a typewriter in over fifteen years. She did what she needed to do to make herself marketable to the workplace.
When mom first was managing our home and family on her own, we were always short at the end of the month. There were a few months when there wasn’t any food until the welfare check came in a day or two later, and credit cards weren’t an option for a single woman in the 1970’s. Free breakfast and lunch at school fed us kids, but mom would just go without.
Our financial situation changed when someone gave my mom a common sense piece of advice: Pay the bills first and learn to budget the rest and live within your means.
This sounds so simple but it was new information to the woman who had always let her husband manage the money. She began meticulously budgeting and made sure we always had enough to eat and live on. It wasn’t fancy, but all of our needs were provided for. Mom budgets meticulously to this day.
Even though my mom’s income was always smaller (her max pay before retirement was $17 an hour) she always, always saved something each month. She contributed to the 401(k) plans where she worked and put a little bit in savings each month. At the time, the small amount she was putting away each month didn’t seem like much, but it grew over the thirty years between her divorce and retirement and she’s still living on it today.
Mom went through LOTS of tough times in her life after the divorce. She suffered for years from clinical depression. It takes her awhile to learn new skills, so there were many jobs that fired her due to her lack of ability. But no matter what obstacles came her way, mom got up, brushed herself off and moved on. She did her best not to allow failure or discouragement keep her from achieving.
My mom’s life now is not comfortable by many people’s standards, but she has her priorities in order so that her minimal income (about $750 a month via social security and a smaller sized investment fund) is managed in a way that makes sure the bills are paid but allows for some fun too. Mom’s “fun” these days includes her weekly bowling session with her husband, her brother and sister-in-law. They take advantage of the senior bowling rates and then her and her husband (they have totally separate finances and split all of the bills) split a meal at a local restaurant. She gives herself sixty dollars a week to cover gasoline and other incidentals, entertainment and clothing costs, and gift purchases for birthdays and Christmas. She rarely spends all sixty each week, putting the leftovers in an envelope so that when more expensive weeks come she has the cash to cover them. She doesn’t take vacations or live in a fancy house. She has the same bedroom set and coffee tables she’s had for thirty years.
Comfortable to my mom means she’s able to stay retired and spend her free time with family and friends. She doesn’t at all feel like she’s missing out because of her tight budget. Instead, she’s grateful for all that she has and is happy to have a warm home and loved ones to share her time with.
Mom isn’t wealthy by any stretch of the imagination, but she has all that she needs and a little bit more, and that is perfectly enough for her. She’s learned to look at the positive in life and be grateful for all that she has, and that kind of attitude makes life a whole lot more comfortable, regardless of one’s money situation.
How about you all? Have you ever struggled financially? What did you do to overcome?
Share your experiences by commenting below!
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